A few days ago, we returned home from the library to find the neighbor children keeping vigil in the driveway. It was past dinnertime, but the older girls raced off to spend an hour or so with these friends in the yard next door. The sun was just beginning to set, and the air smelled muddy and cool as I struggled to get the little ones out of their car seats. (Rarely do I do this job, with Agnes, Theresa, and Margaret always on hand to open latches and unfasten straps.)
With the others off playing, the little three naturally paused to linger on the path in the front. Patrick checked on our Praying Mantises, while Marie gathered wildflowers, grown tall and tempting at the edge of the lawn. Baby Maureen tramped about the bare garden, peering down to probe the prints her worn-out little moccasins were pressing in the smooth, soft earth.
I too was content to remain outside, smiling to hear the boisterous shouts and merry laughter of my older girls mingling with birdsong in the distance. Digital camera in hand, I began clicking photos, starting with an image of little Maureen's muddy march:
My mind wandered to The Cottage Garden weblog, and I began photographing burgeoning spring blooms, including the rosy spray of cherry blossoms above, noting with admiration the way each new floweret showcases a tiny yellow windowbox of its own.
Marie and Maureen strolled through the cool, moist grass hand-in-hand, pausing in the shadow of a bare Oak. I took their picture, but regretted not adjusting the lens to get a better shot:
Meanwhile, Patrick had rediscovered the small opening under our rhododendron hedge, just the perfect size to grant admittance to a boy of four. I snapped his picture, dreaming of the pink profusion nestled amongst those leathery leaves, wondering whether our hulking hedges would bloom in time for the May Crowning this year.
Turning an eye toward the girls, I woke from my reverie to witness Marie, usually the world's most sensible six-year-old, with Maureen in tow, tramping straight toward the road. They were about eight feet from the edge when I called out, "Marie, what are you doing bringing the baby so close to the street?!" My sharp and sudden cry shattered the springtime serenity and surprised Marie, surpised her so much in fact that she dropped Maureen's hand and bounded a beeline back to me. I gaped at the scene in disbelief, shouting, "No! Don't let her go! Maureen, come back!"
Now Maureen had just spent the afternoon leading me on a merry chase through stacks and shelves in the library. The moment she heard my desperate, "Maureen, come back!" she grinned roguishly, roared her laughter to the evening air, and raced directly toward the road. I bolted after her, my heavily-laden, expectant form not catching up until we were both standing in the dead center of the street. I listened numbly to her squeals of delight as I hefted her off the road, marching straight for the door of the house with a bewildered Patrick and shaken Marie trailing along at my heels.
Our street is not especially busy, although this in itself is a danger. Drivers, not expecting many pedestrians or bicycles, have a tendency to speed down it. Landscapers, tree specialists, and workmen of all sorts are kept busy this time of year, often careening past at breakneck speed, little expecting a small toddler to flit from out a massive hedge. It was also rush hour, the time of day when weary working people race for home. If any of these drivers had happened to be coming at that moment, our Maureen--the "Treasure"--the spring blossom of our hearts, would have been killed.
Just like that.
Talking it over with Marie later, she explained that more flowers were growing a few feet from the road and she was bringing Maureen with her to help pick them. Her innocent and artless account reminded me of the classic images of children playing near streams and other imminent dangers, protected by an unblinking ethereal Guardian. I have always wondered where the parents were in those pictures. Now I know all too well.
This incident has left me pensive the past few days. Each time Maureen makes one of her amusing babyish remarks, like the "prayerful countenance" story, the thought of not having her passes darkly through my mind. The night this happened, she was singing a composition of her own, marching a merry circle around the den:
"This is Mommy! This is Marie! I am Baby! I am Treasure! And I am very, very HUN-gry!"
Watching her tousled head keep time to the music, I shuddered to think what a dark night it would have been for all of us if circumstances had been different. I was filled with conscious appreciation for Maureen, and indeed all our children, and the ordinary, unwaivering, unremarkable simplicity of our lives.
It struck me later how much I take for granted these calm and commonplace days parading past unnoticed, each with its hopes and dreams, cares and concerns, delights and disappointments. Why is it that I let trifling challenges or inessential ambitions exhaust my energy and occupy my mind?
St. Gianna Molla once said that, when faced with death, the troubles and aspirations of the world seemed to her nothing but vanity. Perhaps this is what Our Dear Lord meant when He instructed, "do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Let the day's own trouble be sufficient for the day." (Mt. 6: 34.) This is not only an exhortation against futile fears--it is a call to the virtue, the gift, of Contentment.
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For years now, each of our children leads one special prayer at bedtime. Their roles in prayer evolved gradually as, one by one, our toddlers became old enough to participate, and I have often supposed that these prayers hold a specific spiritual significance for each child. Agnes says the Memorare; Theresa leads the Prayers for Our Holy Father; Margaret recites the Prayer to St. Michael; and Patrick does a fair job delivering the "Now I lay me down to sleep."
Every night, since right around her third birthday, Marie has sung for us the Prayer to her Guardian Angel:
Angel of God, My Guardian Dear, To whom God's love commits me here. Ever this day, Be at my side, To light and guard, And to guide.
I am thankful to Marie and Maureen's Angel Guardians, who, as Our Lord promised, "always behold the face of [our] Father who is in heaven." (Mt. 18: 10.)
And I am deeply grateful for our lives exactly as they are.
Alice, what a moving, thoughtful and beautiful post. I am so glad to read everything turned out well. Haven't we all had moments like these, when we are sure of, and thankful for, an angel's sheltering hand?
Posted by: Dawn | April 13, 2006 at 05:15 AM
What a beautiful post one of my favorites.
Posted by: MaryBeth | April 13, 2006 at 08:00 AM
Alice, this is so true. Thank you for yet another thought provoking and heart-warming post.
Posted by: Theresa | April 13, 2006 at 08:03 AM
Truly beautiful and so thought provoking, Alice. Thank you!
Posted by: Elizabeth Foss | April 13, 2006 at 08:42 AM
Alice, this is so beautiful, so true, so moving.
Posted by: Karen E. | April 13, 2006 at 09:14 AM
Beautiful, Alice!
Thank you for sharing.
Posted by: Cay in La. | April 13, 2006 at 09:43 AM
Beautiful post Alice.
Posted by: Mary Ellen Barrett | April 13, 2006 at 09:47 AM
Alice,
"Guardian Angel Moments" have caused many a restless night for me. Thank you so very much for sharing this - it speaks to me so!
God Bless you and yours,
Posted by: kristina | April 13, 2006 at 10:36 AM
Praise God from whom all blessings flow! Praise God for our Guardian Angels. Praise God for our beautiful, blessed, sometimes boring lives, and Praise God you have shared with us such a remarkable moment in yours. :o)
Tracy Q.
Posted by: Tracy Q | April 13, 2006 at 11:11 AM
Oh Alice, I am almost crying feeling like I was right there with you watching it all unfold. How thankful you must be for that precious little Catherine. God Bless her sweet little heart. Breath easy as God is in heaven. Hugs.
Posted by: Meredith | April 13, 2006 at 11:26 AM
Alice, I am so grateful that you posted this. I, too, take for granted the everyday safety and protection the angels give our children. Not until something opens my eyes do I give it much thought. Thank you dear God for taking such care of Catherine.
Posted by: Rebecca | April 13, 2006 at 09:09 PM
Alice, what a lovely post. I had this happen with my 2 year old stepson 14 years ago (but we lived on much busier 55 mph road). We were terrified!
Then a couple of weeks ago, my DD (6) had her guardian angel working overtime. We have limited storage space, so store stuff on top of our freezer and fridge. She opened the fridge door and a crockpot had gotten jostled somehow and came tumbling down on her. The only way I can explain that that heavy crock and that metal container missed her was that her angel deflected them, else she would have been severely injured, if not killed. The crockpot now has a new home. God bless!
Posted by: Melissa | April 14, 2006 at 06:18 AM
Oh, Alice, truly the status quo is something to be grateful for, and I've been grateful for those guardian angels so many times, too. Thanks for writing it out so beautifully.
Posted by: WJFR | April 20, 2006 at 10:42 PM
Alice, I just discovered your blog and this post. I know too well the feelings you describe. My boys each have a Guardian Angel picture in their room, like the one you posted. We have had some narrow escapes too. But I like your idea of a prayer for each child. My older boy and I say the St.Michael prayer every day. I think I will teach the little one the Guardian Angel prayer. Thanks for your inspiring work.
Posted by: LadyHatton | September 07, 2006 at 08:34 AM
Dear Alice,
What is that light behind little Maureen in the library? I am of the opinion that God allows our angels to be visible sometimes. Could it be? Or is that just a glare from a glass door (it looks like you could have taken her photo though glass).
Posted by: Beth | April 25, 2008 at 10:46 AM