May 23, 2008

Bouguereau on Blue and White

Last year's summer in California continues to inspire us!

One of the things we remember well, particularly in Mission Carmel, was the wide variety of blue and white tiles featuring devotional scenes.

The Holy Family:

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Our Lady of Mount Carmel:

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We also admired the Pieta by Adolphe-William Bouguereau, a larger-than-life painting standing floor to ceiling against a wall of the Legion of Honor Art Museum in San Francisco.

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These images and memories formed the inspiration for a simple springtime project--"Blue and White Tiles for Our Lady."

We began with a wooden plaque, holy card, container of tiles, tile glue, and a gold-leafing pen.

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It only took about two minutes to gild the edges.

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After planning the location of the tiles, a special glue was brushed on the wooden surface and the back of each tile square.

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Gluing the tiles did not take long at all.

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Here you have it, a partially finished product. It is incomplete because, being a novice at tile work, I thought the mosaic glue would also act as grout. No such luck. I will need to return to the craft store some time soon--or make my own grout from a mixture of white sand and glue. (This photo was taken before the glue dried so you can still see a bit of it round the edges.)

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Knowing it might take a month or more before we return to the craft store, I decided to post the project as is, because it is quite pretty already. I am thinking about turning it into a holy water font eventually or putting it on the front door.

Whether or not I ever get around to putting grout in all those cracks!

January 12, 2008

Thoughtfulness

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So often, I plan to write about something, but never find the time. The story may be a good one, but it gets put on the backburner, left to evaporate as other experiences take its place.

Now that we are two weeks into the new year, I thought it might be worthwhile to look back upon some of those happy, unrecorded memories.

Here is the first:

My sister-in-law, Jenn, is the world's sweetest, most thoughtful person. She is married to my husband's youngest brother and never ceases to amaze me with her kindness. The afternoon before we left for San Francisco, I walked out through the garage to put out the garbage and found her just getting out of her car in my driveway. It was such a happy surprise to see her, I could hardly believe my eyes. "You've caught me!" she exclaimed, laughing, and looking trim and beautiful in spite of being in her third trimester with a new little one.

She had with her eight gift bags and was leaving them for us on the side lawn, presents to take on the plane to California. Each and every one of the children had a book of stamps, stationery, an address book, and other goodies, selected with loving attention to detail to suit their many individual tastes.

Here are a few pictures of some very happy children about to leave for the trip of a lifetime with the gifts from a loving aunt to send them off:


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This only child is grateful for her children's many loving aunts and uncles!

December 13, 2007

The return of an old friend

If you were reading here during the summer, you may recall the story of Margaret's lost black backpack, stolen from our unlocked car in downtown San Francisco on the Fourth of July. I replaced it immediately for a new red one. Margaret was overjoyed--yet somewhere, in the back of her mind, I know she always missed her black one. It had once belonged to her friend Stephanie and was sentimental.

Yesterday afternoon, after science class, Stephanie and her mother said they had a surprise for Margaret. Take a look at what was waiting for her in a shopping bag:


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Stephanie's mother, my wonderful friend Patty, had been given the backpack during a vacation to Puerto Rico many years ago. She wanted to replace it for Margaret and called around to the group of people who had been on the trip with her to see if any of them still had one that was available. A friend said she just happened to see the backpack while taking out Christmas decorations a week or so ago and passed it along to Patty to give to Margaret as the PERFECT gift.

Is there anything more wonderful than the love of close friends? These pictures really do not capture Margaret's bouncy, happy, joyful surprise, but, as you can see, the moment did call for a quick dance between friends:

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December 04, 2007

California Mission in Miniature

Last week, we made miniature Wayside Shrines similar to the ones I loved in Ireland as a little girl. After our summer in San Francisco, there is no doubt the California Missions made a similar impression on my children. We were blessed to visit four of them during our stay--Mission San Rafael, Mission Dolores (San Francisco de Assis), Mission San Luis Obispo, and Mission Carmel, the burial place of Blessed Junipero Serra.

With the Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe right around the corner, this seemed a good time to create our own miniature mission shrine, using elements inspired by the four beautiful missions we remember so well. We began with a double sided wooden frame from the craft store. The tiled roof made us think of the missions:

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The photo of Mission Carmel below gives a glimpse of the terracotta tiles so common in mission churches:

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Eight-year-old Marie enjoyed painting the tiles of our "mission":

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Mission San Rafael is creamy beige with crosses on top and two topiaries gracing the front:

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The first side of our shrine, representing the outside of the missions, has a similar look:

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Monuments to Father Junipero Serra, here shown in the garden at Carmel, may be found all over California:

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If you look closely at the side of the church in Carmel, you will notice graves adorned with sea shells:

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A holy card image of Blessed Serra, along with a small seashell, complete the first side:

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For the interior, we drew inspiration from the freestyle flower borders of Mission San Luis Obispo:

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We all loved the way this simple border echoed the ones we remember:

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This wall of statues from Mission Dolores in San Francisco is typical of the missions--there are always many statues and images to inspire:

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We adorned our mission "interior" using saints' images from a broken bracelet and a holy card of Our Lady of Guadalupe:

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After the summer we had, it seems appropriate to have this reminder of the California Missions displayed prominently on our Advent table. It will also make a double-sided centerpiece for our Guadalupe Tea next week.

Blessed Junipero Serra, pray for us!

Our Lady of Guadalupe, pray for us!

September 13, 2007

A Step Back in Time

The Roman city of Pompeii, suddenly decimated by the wrath of Mount Vesuvius, is, as you know, a perfectly preserved example of an Ancient Roman town. There to this day you will find uncracked eggs gathered in a bowl, a leashed dog curled in endless sleep, pots and pans left set to boil upon the fire--the precise and permanent picture of life as it was at a distinct moment in time.

This was exactly the way we found things here at home upon our return from San Francisco.

The truth is that I had done no preparation for our three month trip, hurling some clothes in a box to be shipped to our destination one or two days before leaving New York and that's about it. Upon our return, I was amazed to find the house exactly as we had left it, the perfect time capsule of our life back in May. A script from A Midsummer Night's Dream sat splayed on its spine; a Scrabble game in progress awaited a next move on the coffee table; a pitcher of pink peonies drooped forlornly on the mantle, the centerpiece from our almost forgotten Rhododendron Tea.

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The Mary Garden outside, long neglected and left to nature, reminded me of Sleeping Beauty's Castle, the green things embracing Our Lady so that we could hardly find her. Full grown melons we had never planted huddled beneath the hostas, their vines and yellow blooms crocheted in a chain stitch throughout the unruly bed. Tomatoes sprang up mysteriously, the evidence of a child's afternoon snack all those months ago.

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It was only yesterday--believe it or not--that I entered the learning room in the cottage for the first time, surprised to find scrap paper, books, blocks--all left in their places since May. I reached for a garbage bag, tossing the useless papers indiscriminately, when my eye fell upon a bright yellow sheet covered in numbers. It was Agnes' scrap paper from last year's foray into Algebra. Words were written on one side that made me laugh out loud--the "doodling" of a student whose mind was evidently more on Shakespeare and A Midsummer Night's Dream (not to mention escape!) than anything else.

Here is her simple [she's only changed a few words from the original], yet amusing, parody of Nick Bottom's speech to the "Wall" from Pyramus and Thisbe, the play within a play:


O grim-look'd math! O math with print so black!
O math, which ever art when play is not!
O math, O math! alack, alack, alack,
I fear my mother's promise is forgot!
And thou, O door, O sweet, O lovely door,
That stand'st between the smaller house and mine!
Thou door, O door, O sweet and lovely door,
Show me thy pane, to blink through with mine eyne!

Thanks, courteous door:
Jove shield thee well for this!
But what see I?
No recess do I see.
O wicked door, through whom I see no bliss!
Cursed be thy wood for thus deceiving me!

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I must admit to enjoying this visit to our lives as they were in May.

Still, I think it may be time for a bit of spring cleaning to bring us back into the present!

[This is the 500th Cottage Blessings post.]

September 10, 2007

Love2Learn Mom meets Alice in Blunderland (complete without pictures)

What was Love2Learn Mom expecting?

We had only been planning her San Francisco visit for two short months (OK, maybe three). How could I possibly be ready when she arrived with a mere two or three months to prepare? And surely, she was not expecting for the children to be dressed or for us to have food or water in the house? Where on earth was I supposed to get food and water with only three months' notice?

If the incomparably endearing and good-humored Alicia was expecting the author of Cottage Blessings to be a gracious hostess--or even a normal human being--that folly was dashed within moments of entering our fabled manse in San Francisco. We were preparing to leave town only a few days later, and to say that I had lost control of things would be putting it mildly. When the doorbell rang at our appointed hour, I was on the phone upstairs, barely aware that the morning was over and our long awaited date had arrived. I bolted down the grand staircase in bare feet, greeting my hapless guest with apologies for everything from the bedraggled state of my hair to the sundry odds and ends collected (and waiting to go in boxes addressed for home) in the formerly beautiful front hallway.

Alicia laughed and smiled, merrily enduring the endless comedy routine I automatically go into whenever things go awry. [If you have ever seen a mother bird squawking and awkwardly feigning a broken wing to draw attention away from her hidden young, you will know about how delicately I use humor to keep guests' minds off my shortcomings.] We sat chatting in the living room--feeling uncannily like old friends [complete and utter disarray will do that]--while the children appeared in dribs and drabs like dwarves to the house of Beorn.

Or perhaps more like timid munchkins: "Come out, come out, wherever you are, and greet the young lady fresh from a cable car . . . ."

Not at all surprisingly, Alicia--a San Franciscan at heart--loved the grand old house, which was still glorious in spite of all the living we had done in it. She was at once taken with our large collection of books (amassed during a three month reading frenzy on all things San Francisco) poring over them with alacrity. If Alicia noticed that the baby was undressed and covered in pen marks from shoulder to foot or that Patrick and Maureen were wearing a layer of morning cereal on their shirts, she did not let on.

Before long, she found herself riding shotgun in the big white van, rolling up and down break-neck hills and bound for Golden Gate Park. We introduced her to one of our dearest friends and sipped tea in The Japanese Tea Garden. Over cups of Oolong, I took out my trusty digital camera only to discover that the memory card was back home in the card reader!

Alicia took the picture below at my urging. The purple plum in the center is actually Marie's San Francisco Zoo cap. It fell off her head as she leaned over the Drum Bridge to look for Koi and seemed to me the perfect still life representing the quirky things that kept happening that day. More than once, I found myself repeating, "You know, Alicia, we are not usually like this" or "I'm not really this ditzy, honestly, this is very unusual for me." Dear soul that she is, Alicia almost looked convinced!

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Perhaps my favorite line from the entire day came from my daughter Agnes--it was uttered with heartfelt sincerity and spoke perfectly for all of us: "Mrs. ___, we have only known you for an hour now, but already I feel as if I am going to miss you."

And miss Alicia we do!!!

We would like to have another day just like it in New York, but this time with Alicia's children along as well!

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Trivia question: While in San Francisco, we had the pleasure of seeing both the wonderful Diane and the fabulous Alicia (among other friends). What other blogging Mommy greeted the same two guests this summer?

September 07, 2007

Taking Care

I just noticed something fascinating and could not resist sharing the observation here.

In the recent post, Daddy has the last word, I told about finding a forgotten Loreto holy card with a prayer for aviators purchased at the Mission San Rafael. The timing (just before our flight home) was so perfect that I wrote, "The Blessed Mother is not slow to let us know she is caring for us, sometimes even before we remember to ask for her help."

Just now, I was looking over posts from the San Francisco trip--we've only been home a week, and already I'm reminiscing--and came across the story of Maria, the woman who treated our family so kindly at the Mission San Rafael. Reading that account again all these weeks later, I cannot help but be amazed to note that Maria's parting words to me (and I would have no recollection of this if it had not been written down) were "the Blessed Mother always takes care of us."

Suddenly, these words have taken on new significance, and you may be sure I will be pondering them for quite some time.

Our Lady of Loreto, pray for us!

September 06, 2007

Give the people what they want

"Nothing is a waste of time if you use the experience wisely."
--Auguste Rodin

By popular demand ("popular" meaning, at least one or two people), I give you Rodin's Thinker in cream cheese (circa 2001):

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"The modes of expression of men of genius differ as much as their souls."
--Auguste Rodin

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September 05, 2007

Daddy gets the last word

The night before our flight home to New York, I was feeling like a cat in a violin factory. When we touched ground in San Francisco back in June, I had made a mental note never to get on a plane again. The turbulence and tight quarters had left me rattled, and I resolved to spend three months figuring out some other way to get home, even if it meant hopping on board a freight train with a can of beans in a bandana suspended from a stick. Now here I was getting ready for a 6 o'clock in the morning flight with no small measure of trepidation.

Daddy was more than a little bit surprised when I revealed my misgivings to him [I had not let on before], but there was nothing he could do. Eight expensive, non-refundable tickets had been purchased, and nine Gunthers would be 30,000 feet in the air the next day. There was no way around it.

Last minute packing and tidying was keeping me busy during those final hours, and I walked around our beloved San Francisco House saying a silent goodbye to every crevice and corner, trying to memorize the feel of the fabric under my fingertips, the old-time smell of gasoline emanating from the furniture, and the glint of streetlights filtering through the lace paneled curtains. A last minute drawer inspection revealed a holy card of Our Lady of Loreto. I smiled to myself, glad we did not leave this image of Our Lady behind--she was beautifully depicted holding her infant Son before the house in Nazareth and bourne along by two angels. The vaguest of all recollections returned to me, and I remembered one of the children asking for the card at the Mission San Rafael months ago. I flipped the picture over and found a prayer which, under the circumstances, took my breath away. It was entitled, "Our Lady of Loreto, protect my flight":

Our Lady of Loreto,
benevolent patroness of aviators,
protect and guide me on my flight.

Look upon me with your gentleness, O Mary,
and upon all I travel with.

Shelter us from harm,
Blessed Mother,
and lead us safely
to our destiny.

Amen.

The Blessed Mother is not slow to let us know she is caring for us, sometimes even before we remember to ask for her help. I offered the prayer to her with all my heart and impulsively posted it to the Cottage of Loreto Novena group, knowing the good people there would not mind this unusual personal request.

Planning to leave the house by three in the morning, Daddy and I did not sleep at all that night, and before we knew it, we were waking the children--all groggy eyed and fully dressed--and loading them into the big white van for the last time. In keeping with our theme of "San Francisco Serendipity," there was a lunar eclipse that night. We watched the moon turn from gold to crimson, waxing low on the horizon like a dull setting sun.

By the time we returned the van to Hertz and made our way through some exceedingly tight security, we arrived at our plane with--I kid you not--four minutes to board. Although the airline had assured us of the high likelihood of sitting together when we purchased the block of eight tickets, all the assigned seats were individual. Even three year old Maureen was sitting on her own in a middle seat between two adults. Complicating the arrangement further, Eileen and I were bumped up to first class, leaving Daddy and the children to their own devices and dotted all around Coach.

Although this sounds like a recipe for disaster, the flight went remarkably well (for all of us). Gazing out the window at the vastness of our beautiful country, I was completely at peace, interested in everything and not the least bit on edge. My "fear of flying"--something that has caused me to avoid air travel for almost ten years--evaporated like morning dew, and I knew it was thanks to Our Lady of Loreto and the prayers of the Novena group. [So complete was my transformation that I was already thinking about taking the children to Ireland, something that never even occurred to me before.] In my mind's eye, I pictured angels, just like the ones in the holy card, ushering the plane to Kennedy Airport under the watchful eye of Our Lady and her Son.

Happily settled at home the next day, Daddy and I went out to dinner for the first time since leaving New York all those months before. We talked about so many things by the flickering candlelight that night, the vivid memories of San Francisco still more real to us than Long Island in some ways. From a speaker in the distance, Frank Sinatra was crooning "Luck be a Lady Tonight," barely audible over the din of patrons chattering at the bar. Our check paid and two side by side coffee cups almost empty, we were just about to leave, when Frank's voice mellowed into the familiar standard, "I Left My Heart in San Francisco." We lingered at the table a moment, listening to lyrics we never truly understood before, but now could have written ourselves:

"I left my heart in San Francisco, high on a hill it calls to me
To be where little cable cars climb halfway to the stars.
The morning fog may chill the air, I don't care.

I left my heart in San Francisco . . . ."

With that, Daddy reached across the table and squeezed my hand, saying in his solid, earnest way, "I brought mine home with me."

That was almost a week ago now, but I don't think the smile has left my lips since.

August 28, 2007

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Many, many thanks to Leona, Glenn, Martha and Gloria, all four of whom told me about St. Dominic's Church and its shrine to St. Jude. Thanks to all of you, we have been attending Mass at St. Dominic's for the past month and love the place dearly.

August 27, 2007

Huckleberry Flint

The four older girls and I were bringing home ice cream for Daddy and the little ones, when I decided to pick up two cups of coffee as well. Peet's was closed, so we made our way next door to Lo Cubano, a coffee shop we have never once tried in all these months. A sign scratched in chalk read "Music Tonite!" and a string band was playing within, the musicians' backs to the front plate glass window.

If you have ever stood outside an establishment with a band in full swing, you will understand how we hesitated on the sidewalk, not wanting to interrupt or intrude, feeling vaguely like party crashers. A few friendly audience members noticed us teetering there and waved us forward, wearing such welcoming expressions, I almost fancied they would be disappointed if we did not come in. Slipping through the shop's glass door, we left the lamplit street with its cars and concrete behind and entered a country haven of banjo and bluegrass. People of every age and ethnicity rocked, danced, tapped, and clapped, and yet the place felt cozy and soothing. Children swung round in circles, and old people smiled from cushioned corners. An expression of satisfaction spread across each face so that, different though they were, the patrons had the unified look of a loving and boisterous family.

My full attention was captured by a darling baby dancing in the aisle. She reminded me so much of my Eileen with her bright eyes and straight silky hair. The girls noticed her too, and four adoring smiles were trained upon her at once, admiring her whirling, wandering, rhythmic joy. When I ordered my coffee, the woman behind the counter asked if I would mind waiting for a fresh pot. "With this music playing?" I laughed. "Take all the time you want!" She flashed me a smile, and my girls stood tapping their feet looking so happy to be there.

A sweet young woman approached us saying, "Would you like a table? I am following the baby and won't be sitting. I can move my things if you like."

"Are you the mother of that little darling?" I gushed, "She reminds me so much of my baby at home. They must be just about the same age." Within moments, we discovered to our mutual amazement that the two girls in fact share a birthday. [How can I describe how warmly I felt toward her dear mother because of this? It was the kinship of two women who both received God's greatest gift on the same day--one on the west coast, the other on the east.]

It turns out the woman's husband was one of the very talented members of the bluegrass group, Huckleberry Flint. Captivated by the band's arresting and uniquely American music, the girls and I wanted to stay into the evening, but I thought of the ice cream melting in the car and the coffee cooling in its cup. The ice cream and coffee, I would have readily sacrificed, but these things were for Daddy and that made them important. And so, in an almost heroic act of the will, I resolved to return to the world of cars and concrete, leaving our Bluegrass Brigadoon behind.

Huckleberry Flint plucked, bowed and crooned "How Great Thou Art" with a simple sincerity that was enough to break my heart as I prepared to tear myself (and the girls) away. A hopeful thought struck me though, and I asked the lovely mother if the band had CDs available.

"I think we may have a few in the car," she told me, stepping outside to check. In five minutes time, I had purchased two CDs, and just knowing my purse contained an echo of what we had been hearing fortified me to leave. The girls looked regretful, turning last longing looks on both band and baby. We could still hear the muffled sounds of strings as I pulled out of my spot, feeling like a captain shipping away from a friendly shore, with its music throbbing across the water.

Daddy, being Daddy, urged us to return to Lo Cubano when he heard all about it, regretting that his ice cream and coffee had been given precedence, but it was very late and Eileen needed me. Still longing for more Bluegrass, we popped our first CD, "Good Night, Darling," into the computer. I smiled (and was not at all surprised) to see "Micah 6:8," cited inside the accompanying booklet, giving a glimpse inside the band's heart. In its entirety, Micah 6:8 says:

"You have been told, O man, what is good, and what the LORD requires of you: Only to do the right and to love goodness, and to walk humbly with your God."

The strains of banjo and bow and bass reached our waiting ears once more, less completely perhaps, but still as tunefully. Tossed about by the music, Eileen began a whirl, trot and clap with steps remarkably similar to her west coast counterpart. Margaret and Marie swung one another breathlessly, wearing the satisfied, joyous expressions we had seen dotted all over Lo Cubano. I tapped my foot in a cushioned chair, and Patrick danced a hornpipe on the bed.

If a person could have had a bird's eye view of San Francisco that night--perhaps perched in Coit Tower atop Telegraph Hill or striding a tree on Mount Davidson--and if this person's vision was strong enough to see through darkness, distance and fog, he would have found two lively parties on one street--each full of happy children swaying in the bluegrass, rocking to the wholesome, heartening rhythms of a band called Huckleberry Flint.

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This video speaks louder than words.

August 24, 2007

So this is the Storybook Woods

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One source of great joy for us here in California has been hunting down the nooks and corners particularly loved by the friends kind enough to follow these reports of our trip. I hope to write more about how these recommendations have added interest and warmth to our time here, but for now I will simply say that when Clarice from "The Storybook Woods" urges you to try a place, be prepared to step directly inside a fairy tale.

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Back in early July, Clarice wrote to me about a little town just over a hundred miles south of San Francisco called Carmel-by-the-Sea and an English Tearoom with the charming name, "The Tuck Box." I kept this in the back of my mind for all these weeks, and this past Sunday, I found myself sitting inside a vintage cottage, inspired in its construction by the watercolors of Arthur Rackham, ordering Tea with my girls. The menu at the Tuck Box offered authentic English fare, and I sat down to some of the best Shepherd's Pie ever assembled--second only to the delicious meal my Irish friend Caroline always totes to our house at the arrival of each new baby.

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The cast of our recent production of a Midsummer Night's Dream will confirm that the girls and I are ardent admirers of Arthur Rackham's artwork, so an afternoon spent inside one of his paintings was a dream come true. Builder Hugh Comstock created dozens of these graceful structures decades ago, giving the little town of Carmel-by-the-Sea its idyllic feel. On the side of The Tuck Box, I was beside myself to find a built in Madonna and Child tile and wonder if all Comstock Cottages have similar touches. My hope is that someday, my own dear cottage in New York will wear one just like it.

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Long before Hugh Comstock ornamented this fairy tale village, it was the favorite Mission of Blessed Junipero Serra. Shortly after tea, we had the happiness to wander the Carmel Mission of San Carlos Borromeo, saying a prayer by the grave of Blessed Serra himself. It is a holy place--a paradise within a paradise--awash in flowers and saints' statues and whispers of the past. We have visited four missions during our time in California, but I, like Father Serra himself, will always call Carmel my favorite. There have been rare occasions in my life in which I have stood in a distant place and felt as if I had just returned home--it always happens to me in Ireland, for instance. I had this same feeling standing in the Mission Garden, listening to bees buzzing in and out the wall of the basilica, catching the glint of abalone shells, and lingering near the well tended shrine to Our Lady.

Stopping for a moment, I offered a prayer of thanksgiving for the Spanish missionaries, the canonization of Blessed Junipero Serra, and the many good souls lying at rest in that bower of blessedness.

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[This sarcophagus shows Father Junipero Serra surrounded by three mourning friars. He has a small bear cub curled up under his feet. Interestingly, Father Serra is not interred there. He is buried by the altar within the basilica.]

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[This is the simple cell in which Father Serra passed away.]

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[The girls kneel by the shrine to Our Lady of Mount Carmel inside the basilica.]

Many thanks to Martha Long, who also recommended The Tuck Box the moment she heard we were in Carmel!

August 21, 2007

I usually work in cream cheese, but bronze is nice too

Several years ago, Brigid O'Neill and I were emailing each other back and forth commiserating. Our local homeschooling group was supposed to be having a "World's Fair" of sorts. The details of this ill-fated event are unimportant now--suffice to say the Fair was canceled at the last minute because of Chicken Pox. Ever the clever one, Brigid emailed me a photograph of the project she had been working on to represent France--an enormous Eiffel Tower made entirely out of sugar wafers! This marvel of icing and engineering--looking for all the world like a collaboration between Leonardo and the Keebler Elf--would never see the light of day.

Eager to make Brigid laugh, I showed the pictures to dh, asking for his help. What if we were to make something huge, I suggested, say, an Arc de Triomphe out of kitchen utensils, photograph it, and email it to her? It would make her chuckle no doubt. Dh, oddly enough, was not keen on a massive (and almost pointless) building project at eleven o'clock at night.

With the muscle behind the operation headed off to bed, practically no materials or ideas, and a desperate, overwhelming need to make Brigid laugh, I turned to the only thing in the house still humming at that hour--the refrigerator. Swiping a cold block of cream cheese from the door and slipping it out of its silvery case, I set to work smoothing and pinching and poking and giggling to myself until I had a pint-sized replica of Rodin's Thinker. Photographing it from all angles, I wrote to Brigid triumphantly, "You think you're disappointed? Look what I was going to bring!"

It was absurd and ridiculous and hysterical, of course, and Brigid wore out her L-O-L keys responding, printing the photos to display in her kitchen from that day forward.

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Now, it is a little known fact that, in order to appreciate fine arts and sculpture fully, one must first replicate it in cream cheese, so you can imagine my great joy when we stumbled upon San Francisco's famous statue of the Thinker at the Legion of Honor Art Museum. (Of course, Rodin's piece was not as sensitive and unique as mine, nor can it be served on a bagel, but it has its merits too.)

Our happy discovery took place a little over two weeks ago. The children and I left home early with no definite plans other than a stop at Peet's Coffee. Sipping my latte in the car (life here is so hard), we mulled over possibilities for the day--the San Francisco Zoo? Golden Gate Park? The Muir Woods?

I suggested a patch of green on the map called "Lincoln Park," and the children were eager to try it, hoping for slides and a swingset. The park is an easy drive from our house, yet, for some reason, it never even occurred to me to go there, perhaps because the lure of Golden Gate Park has always been so great. Imagine my surprise to find a rolling golf course overlooking a panorama of the Pacific Ocean and Golden Gate Bridge. In the center of this verdant kingdom of grass and golfballs sat Rodin's Thinker, contemplating his next stroke and enthroned in the columned courtyard of an architectural jewel of an art museum. The Legion of Honor is crammed with works by Monet, Reynolds, Rembrandt, Durer, El Greco, Manet, Bougereau, Rodin, and others, not to mention one of the largest and most stirring collections of religious artwork we have ever seen.

I was thrilled, feeling as if we had just landed with a thump at the end of a rainbow, though it was bittersweet finding the pot of gold so late in our trip. There had been many afternoons and mornings we would have spent wandering the hallways of that museum if we had known of its existence. Joining as members, we began making up for lost time, visiting at every opportunity--not only to the Legion of Honor, but also the de Young Museum, its sister in Golden Gate Park--so much so that the curators and docents now smile with recognition everytime they see us.

Apparently, they appreciate a young family fond of the arts--then again, perhaps my reputation precedes me. Can't you just hear them whispering in awed tones, "There she goes--New York's Cheesiest Artist!"

[Amended to add a link to the photos of The Thinker in cream cheese: Give the People What They Want]

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[Please click here for a few more photographs. I put them on a separate page so this one would not be too hard to load.]

[Most of this post was written on August 7, 2007.]

All the right moves and a crushing remark

In this video, taken yesterday--our second straight day at the Aquarium--Maureen attempts to get the attention of her otter, luring him with a little known "Otter Attracting Dance." All seems poised to go well, until Mommy delivers one deflating remark.

Forgive me, honey!

August 20, 2007

Drawing a Crowd at the Monterey Bay Aquarium

Our three year old may have a career ahead of her as an animal trainer.

We are spending a few days in Monterey, visiting its famous Aquarium and Carmel-by-the-Sea. The children were given two stuffed otter toys as a gift from the hotel, and Maureen happened to bring hers with us to the Aquarium. Imagine her delight when she discovered that a playful otter in the tank was eager for a game with her! A crowd gathered round as Maureen directed his motions as if he was a virtual otter being guided by a mouse.

Several children from the crowd stepped forward attempting the same game, trying everything from wallets to water bottles to attract the otter, but he would only follow Maureen's stuffed toy!

August 16, 2007

A Cross on a Hill

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Tucked away in Golden Gate Park--reachable only by a steep and winding path through picturesque woodland--stands this Prayerbook Cross. Commemorating the first use of the Book of Common Prayer on the west coast and modeled after the Celtic crosses of Iona, this imposing cross is the perfect symbol of a Christian people--a people who thought it important enough to station at the highest point in the park, claiming the whole for Christ as decisively as an early explorer planting a flag.

Someday before I know it, I will be sitting by the fire on a winter's night in New York, and my thoughts will turn to San Francisco. When they do, I will smile and envision this cross soaring up to the heavens and kissed by a bright blue sky.


August 15, 2007

In the town of Our Lady

Question from the previous post: "Would anyone care to guess the name of the California town that happens to be our meeting place . . . ?"

Love2learn Mom, the very first commenter, and Kristen Laurence both guessed it--the lovely Santa Maria, California!

Lissa and I had quite a few possible spots picked out, trying to pin down a meeting plan for months--Monterey, Carmel, and San Luis Opisbo, to name but a few. Still, we just kept coming back to Santa Maria as the one place with the right distance and available accommodations. It seemed fairly clear that Our Lady wanted us in her town!

Special honorable mentions go to Clarice and Lynn who guessed Carmel (we tried!) and Mariposa and Jennifer who guessed San Luis Opisbo (we really, really tried!)

And thank you all from the bottom of my heart for the extremely kind comments on "Back to the Future"! Here are some "couch baby" outtakes and other highlights from our all-too-brief visit:

["Here's something I couldn't do last year!" says Rilla.]

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["Hey, come back!"]

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[Watching arcade games at the Round Table Pizzeria.]

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[The temporary twins watch too!]

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[Margaret beams over her tenth birthday cake. She said that having Lissa and family there to celebrate was her "best birthday gift ever."]

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[Rilla and Maureen took an instant shine to one another, hugging with the most solemn expressions.]

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[They were so devoted that I could not stop taking pictures of them standing perfectly still, arms around each other in a comfy hug.]

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[After a while, Patrick needed to get into the act!]

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The best line of the whole visit came from my good-natured goddaughter Beanie who, after seeing Eileen for the first time in a year, came to me (with an earnest, irresistible expression) to report, "It is almost as if she doesn't remember me!"

Here they are the last time they were together:

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Fear not, Beanie! The loving beam of recognition in the picture below shows Eileen won't be forgetting you anytime soon!

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One final thought:

I am by nature, an optimist. Reading between the lines of this post, I would say that Lissa has put it on record that visiting me in New York would be even easier than meeting me in the middle of California! Lissa, I'll expect you at the Cottage on August 12, 2008.

[Brigid, we'll get her there yet!]

August 12, 2007

Back to the Future

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It does not seem all that long ago I was saying goodbye to Lissa in my driveway at home in New York. She and her little ones had just spent a week with us, and they were returning to Virginia before moving to the other end of the known universe--San Diego, California.

Waving farewell, I remember the heart wrenching thought that we might not see each other again until our children's weddings!

If only someone could have shown me these photos of that darling pair of couch potatoes--together again and crazy about each other--exactly one year later! Cimg6238_3

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Would anyone care to guess the name of the California town that happens to be our meeting place, not only because of its central location, but also because it was the only one that could accommodate us all on short notice? When you find out, I hope you will agree that it was meant to be.

*I did not even realize it was exactly one year, until taking a look at last year's post only a few moments ago. Amazing!

August 09, 2007

Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man

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August 05, 2007

In which we are invited to Tea and step inside the pages of Victoria Magazine

The same day I wrote the post asking the immortal question, "Does the Gunther Family ever stop taking tea?" I received an email from my gracious friend, Gloria, entitled, "Invitation to Tea":

"Could you come to tea at my house on Wednesday? We could do a high tea with sandwiches and scones with lemon curd etc. The girls love having tea parties."

Needless to say, I fired back an immediate response:

"We will come with great joy on Wednesday! Thank you for the invitation to your beautiful home!"

An automatic link to my blog appeared at the end of the message, and Gloria followed it, finding Cottage Blessings for *the first time.* When she read all those posts about the charms of Tea in San Francisco, she laughed out loud, knowing she had invited the right family!

My dear friends, feast your eyes on the spread Gloria provided for us. Its perfect elegance and beauty cannot be captured on film, because you cannot see the well-tended gardens surrounding the house with every sort of blooming or edible growing thing imaginable (all thriving as vibrantly as a Beatrix Potter watercolor) or the detailed architectural elements both inside an out, reminding me of why San Francisco is so famous for this. You cannot see Gloria's dear children showing me their artwork and telling stories, combing and ribboning Maureen's blonde head, or teaching their guests the Virginia Reel! These things are tucked away in my memory, but I know you can imagine them.
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I will attempt to relay the menu, hoping not to forget a single delectable bite:

Vanilla Milk Tea
Earl Grey Tea
Cucumber Tea Sandwiches sprigged with mint
Chicken Salad Tea Sandwiches
Date Tea Sandwiches
Peanut Butter and Jelly Triangles (for the very little ones)
Homemade Lemon Scones
Homemade Nutmeg Scones
Homemade Clotted Cream
Homemade Lemon Curd
Red Jam
Assorted Cookies
Miniature Brownies

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All of this was served on fine china and an heirloom tablecloth with the strains of Bach and Pachelbel filling our ears.
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Gloria thought of everything, and what Victorian Tea would be complete without a charming table for the littler girls?
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In the Little Girl World, if you are a friend, you must be picked up. Maureen has found favor with the Princess.
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Agnes found a copy of Maria von Trapp's "The Story of the von Trapp Family Singers" on a shelf. Not only did Gloria let her borrow it, she also sang a duet of "The Sound of Music" with Agnes, much to our great delight. Gloria is a Conservatory graduate, and her voice is ethereal!

The only difficulty was peeling my children out at the end--this was not easy, let me tell you. Tea Time in San Francisco keeps getting better and better!

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BTW, Gloria is a dear friend of Chari Bryans, not to mention Maria Peceli, Willa Ryan and Erica Sanchez--there is quite a wonderful group of mothers here in the Golden State of California.

August 02, 2007

In a double stroller

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[San Francisco Zoo, July 31, 2007]

July 31, 2007

Meet me in the middle

Perhaps the most wonderful thing about spending a Summer in San Francisco is that it tends to be a port of call for travelers heading north and south along the California Coast. Yesterday, two beautiful families were making such a journey, one on the way down to San Diego, the other on the way up to Sacramento.

And we were ready and waiting at our beloved Golden Gate Park to greet them both!

First, we spent a happy half hour with Erica Sanchez and family. When you consider the brevity of the visit, it is amazing to see how chummy the children look. But, of course, they share a unique bond as the east coast and west coast best friends of a certain loveable and recently relocated family.

Francis Scott Key Memorial:
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Apple Cidering Monument:
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Out of the sling and ready for action (Eileen races around the Key Memorial, much to the delight of several sweet young Sanchezes):
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New friends chat:
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How kind of the Golden Gate Park to arrange for sprinklers at just the right moment--the little ones were in heaven:
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Friends-for-life, Marie and Annie, take a stroll:

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All too soon, our darling Sanchezes were off to their next stop, a Cable Car Ride downtown! Fortunately, we had another treat in store for the afternoon, meeting my beloved cousin Margaret, her husband, and their too-beautiful-to-be-true children at my new favorite spot for entertaining, The Japanese Tea Garden!

Margaret's tiny daughters are almost the exact same age as Maureen and Eileen, so the afternoon of romping and hand-holding continued unabated. Here, three young O'Briens play in the water fountain. (Wouldn't my grandmother have loved to see them together?!)

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Maureen and her new best friend exchange a loving glance:

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Being from the same stock, Margaret and I both enjoyed stopping for tea--this time I even let my children order hot chocolate! Here we are waiting outside while my older girls browse in the gift shop:

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Now, let's say a prayer that I can get my dear cousin and her family to visit me in New York one of these days!

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July 30, 2007

Sunshine, Wind and Fog

Our Summer Banner features the Golden Gate Bridge in sunshine, yet, as you will see, it is perhaps more striking when embraced and softened by a blanket of the Bay's famous fog. The video provides a panoramic view from Crissy Field on the Presidio and begs the question: Is my New York accent as thick as the fog?

Girls, sails, and sunset:

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Patrick explores a tidepool with Alcatraz blazing in the distance:
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This is how I will always envision the Bay--all sunshine and fog and happy children:
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Young Eileen will not remember it, but I will be sure to tell her how we once walked the western shore together wearing coats that just happened to be the exact same shade of beachy blue:

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July 27, 2007

Teatime in the Park, or More Slides from our Extended Vacation

I suppose it would be fair to ask the question--does the Gunther Family ever stop taking Tea?

The answer, at least here in San Francisco, would be a resounding "No!"

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As we eyed the rustic tea house in the hea