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November 30, 2006

It is not too late!

So you are feeling a bit overwhelmed by all those inspirational Advent ideas popping up around our little cyber-neighborhood like vibrant spring bulbs you somehow forgot to plant. Perhaps you just hosted Thanksgiving and find it impossible to believe yet another season is already knocking at the door and demanding admittance. Maybe you simply have not been able to get to the store to purchase supplies. You see the beauty all around and worry that your dear children will be shortchanged.

Take heart! It is not too late!

At a time like this, we may follow the example of Our Blessed Mother, who was herself the perfect symbol of Advent. "Mary kept all these things, reflecting on them in her heart," [Lk 2: 19] teaching us that prayer and reflection are the soul of this holy season. Simple prayers, like the Christmas Novena or The Angelus may be begun with the children tomorrow morning, bringing in the eternal mystery of Advent to their waiting hearts with no advance preparation necessary.

Yesterday, during one of those quietly humming moments of our school day, I found myself thinking about our Advent Cubes. These simple little cubes are so dear to my heart, and I have high hopes for them as an addition to our own celebrations this year, yet a nagging thought kept insinuating itself into my daydream: Why should the activity be so dependent upon the wooden cubes? Shouldn't a mother with nothing but paper and a pen be able to bring the six separate aspects of the project to life?

My nine-year-old was fairly surprised when I interrupted her math page to ask, "Margaret, do you know how to make paper cubes?"

"Sure," she responded immediately, happily fashioning a cube out of looseleaf using a pattern block as a guide. I asked her to repeat the process with pretty pink paper, and the result was every bit as beautiful as any wooden block could hope to be:

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[You will note that we wrote the name of the Jesse symbol rather than drawing it to show it is not necessary to transform the blocks into Jesse tree ornaments. The children could just as easily participate in creating a paper tree similar to the paper creche.]

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Yes, I hear some of you saying, "Those are sweet, but what mother has time to fashion twenty four paper cubes by Sunday?" Well, the truth is that even paper cubes are not indispensible. You could use plain or colored paper, writing down your six Advent Cube panels on each one and allowing the children to pick folded papers like names out of a hat. Wouldn't something like this work?

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Or, if you wanted to get fancy, you could fashion paper leaves, writing the name of a Jesse tree symbol on one side and the five other cube panels on the other. Each day, as you complete the activities on both sides, one of the children would draw the Jesse tree symbol directly onto the leaf, adding it to a paper tree similar to the one in the original O Night Divine post, but without the need for blocks. (Karen Edmisten's Thanksgiving Trees would be perfect for this purpose. Just imagine a tradition of a Thankgiving Tree transformed to a Jesse Tree each year.)
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In other words, no special or expensive materials (or elaborate preparation) are needed to create a children's creche and Jesse tree, honor the saints of the season, offer a nightly treat, emphasize penance and sacrifice, and remember the books, hymns and prayers that make Advent sing.

At the end of a day, the joy of a new activity and family time spent in prayer is all that matters. For your children, your smile is the only glitter needed to make this Advent shine brightly in their minds and memories.

The Good Within

My friend Genevieve has chosen this blessed season of Advent to order her weeks, days, and even hours to the heartbeat of the Church. Please do not miss Going Deeper into Prayer.

Feast of St. Andrew

Today is the day to begin the Christmas Novena from now until Christmas. Here is the prayer:

Hail, and blessed be the hour and moment at which the Son of God was born of a most pure Virgin at a stable at midnight in Bethlehem in the piercing cold. At that hour vouchsafe, I beseech Thee, to hear my prayers and grant my desires. (Mention your intentions here) Through Jesus Christ and His most Blessed Mother.

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In keeping with our desire to put preparation for Our dear Lord's birth at the front of our minds this Advent season, the faithful are encouraged to repeat this short, but beautiful, prayer 15 times a day.

And here is an idea. I think I will put the prayer in my sidebar as an ongoing reminder. If at least fourteen others were to do this, we could remember to say the prayer when visiting each other's blogs. : ) : ) : )

November 29, 2006

Family in Feast and Feria

How fitting it is that one of the loveliest and most gracious mothers on the internet--not to mention an endless font of faith-filled ideas for living the Liturgical year in all its beauty and fullness--is hosting the Loveliness of Advent Carnival at her web log, Family in Feast and Feria.

Jenn, this Carnival is without question one of the most impressive I have ever seen, and we thank you from the bottom of our hearts for bringing it together!
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November 28, 2006

Lourdes and Laboure

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When our baby girl was born seven short years ago, Dh and I had two different names picked out: "Marie" or "Catherine Laboure" Gunther. I loved them both equally, but Dh preferred Marie, so I gladly went with that, excitedly placing phone calls to tell the world of our little one's arrival.

One of the first on my list was my friend, Lorraine, who was overjoyed to learn our happy news. "What an incredible blessing it is," she exclaimed, "to have a baby girl born on the Feast of St. Catherine Laboure!"

Wha--huh?????

I was stupefied, almost chilled. My saints book at home had listed her feast as November 25th, so I thought there must be some mistake, but Lorraine double checked, and, of course, she was right. November 28th was the correct feast on the new calendar.

"Honey," I announced emphatically, hanging up the phone, "we got it wrong! We need to change her name!"

But Dh felt strongly that Our Lady of Lourdes wanted Marie (and, besides, he had already called his entire family!) As doubtful as I was at the time, to this day, I know in my heart of hearts that he was right.

So on this great Feast of St. Catherine Laboure, we will voice the prayer we repeat every year at this time, "Our Lady of Lourdes, pray for us!" There is no doubt St. Catherine Laboure joins us in this and that she watches over Marie as her special patron and friend.

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And on Marie's birthday, it seems only fitting that I should tell a funny story about her--perhaps a tale from the dark days before the dawn of recorded time (i.e., before I began blogging). Some of you veteran CCM'ers may recognize this one:

July 7, 2003

Just a few minutes ago, I asked three-year-old Marie to run and get me a diaper so I could change baby Patrick.  She smiled at me impishly, but held her ground.  After a bit of futile coaxing, I said half-jokingly, "Oh, come on Marie, you don't want to be useless, do you?"  With that, an expression of understanding passed over her face, and she scampered off, returning almost instantly with diaper in hand.  Before I could even think about what I had said to cause this fortunate turn of events, Marie began to explain: 
 
        "I don't want to be Useless because Useless was bad.  He was mean to his cousins and kept complaining and complaining."  [By this point, I realized she was talking about Eustace Scrubb from the Chronicles of Narnia.]  "Useless was so bad that he turned into a dwagon and dis gold fing was hurting him.  AND he was supposed to be in Da Hobbit!  But he was so Useless that he wasn't even in Da Hobbit!"
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November 26, 2006

Eileen says,

"There is nothing to see here, folks . . . "
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"Please take a look at our Cottage Garden Still Life!"

[Photo credit, Marie, almost 7]

November 25, 2006

Nature's secrets revealed

Cimg0994_1If you look carefully at the uppermost branches of this birch, you may see the outline of a Northern Flicker thrumming the papery limbs to its steady, endless beat.

Our red-headed friend is not the only thing visible now that the last Autumn leaves have tumbled to the ground--please take a look at the world beneath the blossoms in The Cottage Garden.

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My Sentiments Exactly

Yesterday morning, I was at the top of the stairs toting my coffee and baby Eileen, with Marie, Patrick and Maureen close behind. Almost-seven-year-old philosopher Marie assessed the scene and commented: "This is how every mother should come down the stairs in the morning--with a coffee in one hand, a baby in the other, and a trail of kids following behind!"

November 23, 2006

In Thanksgiving for You

"Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless."
--Mother Teresa of Calcutta

Not long ago, you dear friends lifted my heart with your thoughtful birthday wishes. All that day, my thoughts kept turning to an imagined river of gratitude, its banks overflowing with your sudden shower of kindness. Likewise welling in my heart was the prayer that somehow I might come to express the depth of my appreciation for you.

As always in matters of friendship, it helps to turn to Our Lady, and she, being the perfect friend, suggests prayer as the best of all thank you cards.

Cottage of Loreto, named for Our Lady's House, but with my cherished "Cottage" theme, is a Novena reminder calendar to help me remember to pray for each of your families individually throughout the year. Every Novena is dedicated to one specific family, not to mention the intentions of "all our members" (meaning the members of 4Real and all readers of these blogs). First on the prayer schedule are the mothers who so kindly commented on my two silly birthday posts--Thankful Thursdays and Shabby Chic, along with the moms who sent wishes through the Happy Birthday, Alice thread on 4Real.

Needless to say, I hope many of you will join me in these prayers by signing up for Cottage of Loreto. If you do, an email reminder will arrive each day of our Novenas, with a cut-and-pastable link to the prayers. Alternatively, you could choose the "no mail" option, gaining access to the Calendar of Novenas without the need to receive more mail. (Please do not feel any pressure to join yet another group. We are all on computer overload much of the time. You will be included in the prayers whatever you decide!)

I hesitated before posting this fearing I might inadvertently make someone feel left out. (Many very dear friends are not yet on the list. My beloved Lissa is not even scheduled yet, because she had the audacity to wish me a happy birthday over the phone!) Then I realized that the Calendar is and always will be a work in progress, with families added constantly. In fact, if you do not find your name listed below, please place a word in the comments section to this post, and you will be included immediately.

In assigning Novenas, I was careful not to select or plan, allowing the calendar, order of comments, and sometimes even my mistakes to dictate. One example of this occurred when Suzanne Temple's family came up for the "Miraculous Novena of Grace" in early March. My inclination was to switch Suzanne to the March Novena to St. Joseph, because she is selling a house. It occurred to me though that God might have reasons for the St. Joseph Novena to go to Margaret in Minnesota. (After all, I know she is grateful to be married "to the cutest patent lawyer this side of the Mississippi"--St. Joseph ought to be thanked!) Besides, God may be letting us know that Suzanne's house will be sold long before then, and a Novena of Grace in thanksgiving will be in order!

Here is the Novena list, so far:

Mary Ellen Barrett, Miraculous Medal Novena
love2learn mom, Miraculous Novena of Grace
Katherine in Texas, Immaculate Conception Novena
Kathryn, Our Lady of Guadalupe Novena
Dawn, Christmas Novena
Jennie C., Holy Family Novena
Cheryl (Time-Really-Does-Fly), Novena to Mary, Mother of God
Beck, Novena in Honor of the Holy Name
Cheryl (My Thoughtful Spot) Novena for Church Unity
Karen E., Novena to St. John Bosco, patron of educators
Theresa (Lapaz Farm), Novena in Honor of the Purification of Our Lady
Genevieve, Novena to St. Blaise
Jeannine, Novena to Our Lady of Lourdes
Jennifer (As Cozy as Spring), Novena to St. Agnes
Cay Gibson, Novena in Honor of The Holy Face
Kristina, Novena for the Pope's Intentions
Suzanne Temple, Miraculous Novena of Grace
Margaret in Minnesota, Novena to St. Joseph
Karen (Cirque de moi), Novena in Honor of the Annunciation
Nina, Easter Novena
Amy, Divine Mercy Novena
Ann C., Novena to St. Patrick
Rebecca, Novena to St. Bernadette
Donna Marie, Novena to St. Catherine of Siena
Jenn Miller, Novena to Our Lady of the Blessed Sacrament
Marybeth, Novena in Honor of the Ascension
Mary Beth P., Novena to St. Rita, holy wife and mother

[And those are just the commenters on Thankful Thursdays!]

Next on the list are the commenters on Shabby Chic not already listed above:

Leticia
Meredith
Jennifer in TX
Denise in Ohio
Bridget Galbraith
Helen
Kimberlee
Maria (ladybugs)
Donna Howey
Elizabeth Foss
Margaret (In the Shade of the Old Oaks)
Stef
Christine (Memories of a Catholic Wife and Mother)
Louise
Angie

And, of course, the other 4 Real moms kind enough to send birthday greetings on the boards and not already listed:
Noreen in CT
Mary in Canada
Taffy (Living and Learning in the Canadian Prairies)
Irene in VA
Angela (Three Plus Two)
Marilyn W
Chari in beautiful Mount Shasta, CA
Marie C. in Ohio
Krisann (Isla de Esperanza)
Leonie in Australia (Living Without School)
KC in Texas (The Cabbage Patch)
Sarah (Plainsong)
Janette Smith
Jennifer (Mari Hal-O-Jen)
Mary Ann in PA
Becky in Michigan
Elizabeth (Frabjous Days)

May God bless you on this beautiful Thanksgiving Day! I look forward to spending the year offering Novenas with and for you treasured friends!

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Notes:

I pray there are no mistakes in these lists (although my guess is there are at least a few). If so I apologize and will make corrections ASAP! If you do not see your name, please be sure to comment here, and you will be added immediately. Loreto Cottage is a Novena Reminder service and should in no way discourage you from posting prayer requests directly to the "We Pray to the Lord" Forum at 4 Real.

Oh, and a word about spelling. Loretto and Loreto appear to be used interchangeably. At first, I decided to take the spelling used by the Sisters of Loretto, but later changed it in favor of the spelling more commonly used in reference to Our Lady's house.